Whether dressed in drab or en femm, if you dress like "Hey look at me", people are going to look at you. The more out of style with the locals you are the more you are going to get looked at. That may cause a disturbance and see above for the outcomes.... I prefer to dress to blend in both modes. For me that means no tats, no spandex, no spiked hair, no non-ear piercings, no sweat pants, no sponge bob pajama bottoms.....
I say dress the way you want and feel confident. Own your look and get out there.
Renne.....
