I agree in the sense that there is a specific time and place for that evening dress with the glitters and the 5 inch heels. :p
But if you look at all the different types of women and girls during a day of shopping and chilling in a bar or restaurant afterwards.. you will see a lot of styles.
So my advice would be.. dress what you feel is feminine, but suitable for the occasion. If I go shopping, I will go for smart casual.. and I will still wear heels, simply because I don't think flip-flops, Birkenstocks, Crocs, etc. are what I consider feminine.
And there's no point in dressing if the stuff you're wearing doesn't feel feminine to you, right?
