I fear that we are playing with fire on one hand and something reasonable on the other. If you suffer even a mild form of GID then psychologically you will actually do more harm then good trying to suppress your CDing. On the other hand, if you truly feel it is a fetish or something you have a mental handle on, then perhaps you can "take one for the team?" I wish you luck, but like PaulaQ and Kimdl93 have stated, its a two way street, and both have to work together because at least for me I don't see how this part of me is particularly selfish, and burying it may in fact end my life earlier then I wish it to end! (Through stress, depression, etc.)
And logically, Sara Jessica wondered how to rebutt "I didn't sign on for this." The answer lies in the "for better or worse" part of the deal. (and the tiny little issue of you marry the whole person, so they wouldn't be the same if this little matter of crossdressing never exsisted to begin with!)
