ANY male, whether he waters at this site or any of those [hundreds of?] other CDing sites becomes destined to become a CDer once he has that first O while "dressed".

And IF he goes on to have a few more trips [or a few hundred or a few thousand] to Oville while dressed? He is now likely ADDICTED forever. Our brains simply are NOT going to forget that ASSOCIATION and will from that period forward always release just enough "feel good" chemicals to make CDing enJOYyable. This is widely documented by the vast majority of the "older" members here that no longer enjoy visiting Oville. Almost w/o exception, most still report getting some form of high from merely being/staying dressed. It's a MAN'S most basic programming to "release the hounds" as often as possible to as many females as possible. Our male brains don't know or care where the hounds go. We get a nice 7 second or so reward EVERY time we release them. It's our VISION that enables this which is why CDers just luvvvv flats and granny dresses and why there are so many threads and pics about them. Who needs heels or hose when you can wear granny dresses and flats?

Of course there ARE folks born in the wrong bodies. Just not very many. And I once dated a nurse, who had worked at All Children's Hospital for many years and told me that "more kids are born as hermaphrodites than most people realize". Parents are obviously quite capable of making the "wrong" choice when they make those decisions. That was 10 years ago. Perhaps there are better ways now to decide? Perhaps some of the members here were born as hermaphrodites? Would there be any reason for their parents to ever tell them?

But even if we disregard all those other sites, I think this very site alone, post enough FACTS in enough places to make it pretty obvious that most became ADDICTED to CDing while in their teens.

Of course if none of this ^^^ applies to a member, they are likely to have transitioned or be on their way.