Assuming by "gays" that you are referring to gay men, why would they hover around you? I mean, to my knowledge, gay men are attracted to other men, not MtF TSs.
Meaning feminine traits that may be taken as gay markers.
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.