Wow, what a great forum. Remember, I reconsidered my "dressing age" as younger after some helpful advice from my favorite hairstylist and makeup artists in Kingston after my first visit with them. I took their advice and dressed a little younger for my second visit and my day shopping was much more enjoyable, with many more compliments. For example, as much as I though I enjoyed a having a head full of curls from a roller set (just google blonde roller set) she said that technique made me look older than I needed to. A softer flowing style with a bit of a flip worked so much better. Advice is not a rule, it's a guide.
All to say that I am not suggesting at all that there are R_U_L_E_S but merely that after getting some pro advice we can focus our look and have more successful presentation in public, and with that success comes the joy of freedom.
After all, aren't the gajillion fashion and beauty choices GG's have the reason we want to play in their sandbox?