Secrets

[Simone_40]

I bet it won't be so perfect if she finds out.....Keeping secrets will only bring heartache for both parties.

From http://www.womansdivorce.com/marriage-annulment.html:
"The marriage was entered into fraudulently".
Depending on your State, she could easily have it annulled when she finds out, because if you do not tell her, then you entered into the marriage fraudulently.

I think it is OK to keep a secret, if you want, from your SO, as long as the keeping of that secret does not harm him or her....Very few marriages survive lies....Also, bear in mind that if cross dressing is a large part of your life, if you have a combined income and are spending surreptitiously on women's clothes, if you are telling your SO you're just stepping out for a movie and instead step out en femme, you are establishing a pattern of lying that will disrupt your marriage sooner or later. Be careful. If you start lying it becomes easier and easier and, eventually, more and more catastrophic when your SO finds out....Bear in mind she's probably going to find out, sooner or later.....It does require maturity and self-control from both partners but it is a quite common way of dealing with problem areas in a relationship.

Well said, my friend.