Don't count the Mods as being unaware of this thread. It has not crossed certain boundaries and has remained a *discussion* and not a flame-fest.
At the heart of this is self acceptance, measured against your system of morals. What set of rules do *YOU* use, and does it make you feel bad because of what those rules say?
You are *YOU*. If you can't accept yourself, then nobody else has a chance to. It is perfectly valid to do self examination, and the rules we each use depend enormously on where and how we were raised.
Keep it civil and discussion oriented, and we should be fine.
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- MM