You are a crossdresser if you experience women as "the other gender". This is a very male thing to do. In general men who are not misogynisitic and who are or have been sexually interested in women relate to them in very specific ways.

I cannot imagine someone who hates women being a crossdresser. Men who crossdress seem to idolize women. Crossdressing seems to be almost a form of worship but where the person uses their own body attempting to turn it into an alter.

Crossdressers are chasing after something they want to capture . Transsexuals are not chasing but being pursued as if they are being haunted.

I constantly tried to escape my actual gender identity. I moved away from what I knew I was because I did not want to deal with the consequences if I accepted what I knew to be true.

I have always related to women as a woman and never as a man. Crossdressers are clearly men and you see it in their adoration of women.

Certain men really torment themselves when it comes to hurting a woman and you see this very clearly in their guilt.

It is instinctive in men to protect women. This instinct is missing in me because being a transsexual means that you do not share in the same instincts that men do so my guilt and motivations are very different from men.

Being a woman or a man starts in the most primitive parts of the brain. My brain at a primitive level works like a womans brain does.

Transsexuals are guided by the same instincts that women are guided by. Men operate on instincts very specific to the male gender and this influences their behavior toward women.

Perhaps it is the worship of feminine beauty mixed in with the love of women as mothers, sisters and wives.

I have never idolized women and for a long time I was not sure I even particularly liked them but that was coming out of the pain of my gender dysphoria.

Men are willing to die for women. I have never had this urge because I have never experienced women as "the other gender"

I experienced women as equal (sameness) to me and not different. Men don't do this. Men very much see women as being different from them and this is very important to men.

It is easy to know what you are as your gender. All you have to do is compare yourself as your instinctual behavior to men and women.

Crossdressers talk about how dressing calms them. Maybe because it calms their instincts as those relentless drives.