Oh please! I just looked at your latest pics and I saw stereotypical feminine symbols like long hair, legwear, pumps, pencil skirt, makeup, and etc. In real life I don't see many women dressed like that. But then again, CDing is not so much about "being a woman" as it is about associating with symbols of emasculation. CDs are for the most part not very interested in those aspects of womanhood that are not emasculating. That, to answer the OP, is why my identity is LESS about "being a woman" now that I realize what's really going on.