Maybe they will surprise you. You may find out one of your neighbours is a sister or is in to some other "perversion" and was just waiting for the opportunity to talk to you about it. Or may they will ignore it and tell the binocular couple that it is rude to peep in peoples windows. All this is possible. Just today I read that public opinion in the US has changed to the point that the majority of people now support gay marriage when only a few years ago it was the opposite.
To quote Monty Python: Always look on the bright side of life.
And if someone says something about you crossdressing, you just say: "How could you possibly know that?"
Alana