I usually even as in male mode cross my legs and find it harder to sit in a male cross leg with Knees apart more. Last week I was sitting watching TV and my wife pointed out to me when sitting on the couch with legs parallel that I should position my feet with heel of the foot up, almost like I am wearing a high heel and not with my foot flat, that looks more masculine. And even when I cross my legs to point my foot outward. These little details really make a difference.
