I'm starting to think more about the "good news" part. One part is that I can stay completely shaved, something my wife would never tolerate. When I was shaving off my body hair getting ready for Fan Fair I had an incredible feeling of liberation--like I was shearing off this fur coat that was somehow a symbol of oppression. (Dramatic, and unfair, I know, but still....). I go out in shorts now, not caring whether anybody notices my shaved legs. I went dress shopping today and wasn't worried at all about whether the other women thought anything about it. I can wear one of my nighties out of my collection every night, along with my breast forms and go downstairs and get coffee still dressed like that. I dress at home whenever the mood strikes me (unless one of my daughters is over; they haven't said that they are ready for that.) I bought myself an anklet today, just a little gift for myself, and I didn't have to sneak it into the house an put it into my secret stash, I put it in the jewelry holder I have hanging openly in my closet, along with my name badge from Fan Fair. And can sit here and post to this site openly, whenever i fee like it.

Femme lib is great!