Jennifer, great post and thanks for sharing with us. I came out to my wife many years ago and since then she was able to understand some of the stress that I was keeping inside me. Now she'll suggest that I need a girl day, and sadly sometimes I think that I have more important things that should be done. I suppose because I used to spend so much time dressed and going out before, I need to get some things accomplished now. But she tries to keep me grounded; which I appreciate.