Thanks for sharing this, Jennifer. I was wondering though if you think it was an escalation in dressing desire that caused you to come out? I've read that escalation can happen from the forties onwards and of course, it's a bit of a wife's nightmare to think she's one day going to lose her H to this. My H is about to hit this age bracket and nothing's changed in nearly 2 decades but I'm wondering if it will. I know you're not actually going to be able to tell me, (though I do consider you very wise, lol) but I can live with the way things are now, but I honestly doubt any shift of this to the forefront will keep our relationship intact.
Anyway, I'm glad you're in a good place now. Your honesty and rare candour here has helped me more than you know.
