Quote Originally Posted by Launa View Post
They said they would like everyone to use the washrooms with "the gender that they mostly identify with." Of course for me that is male as I only get out a few times a month. I'm not even 50/50.
From the above, I am not sure whether you present as female with makeup, wig, etc, or do you present 50/50? If the latter then I suspect that your best option is to use a gender neutral toilet such as separate disabled facilities.

If you are presenting female then I disagree with the advice you were given. It isn't about how you see yourself, i.e. as a male who happens to dress, but about how others perceive you. If you present female use the female facilities unless there is a law against it. No trophy will be awarded - just practical common sense and personal safety. Be thankful the men were 'cowards' - the alternative might have been more painful.