When I wore a dress with heels for Halloween I went to the men's restroom a couple of times. I am a dealer runner who delivers title applications to a county tax office for a vehicle dealer. Bear in mind I have hair that hangs lower than my shoulders and I wear a C cup bra for my natural breasts. I also had on eye makeup and lipstick. I DID use a urinal so others would see I was male. The first time I talked to the individual next to me in my deep voice that is a cross between Johnny Cash and Joe Friday of Dragnet. I looked very much like a genetic woman. I had ABSOLUTELY no difficulty using the men's restroom from others. I guess I got a lucky break.
Johanna Anna (John in real life)