Quote Originally Posted by Lisa9099 View Post
That being said, I asked him last night if he thought we'd ever meet. His answer was, "who knows?". That answer made me smile because I realized that we are both in the same boat. What happens between us? Who knows? Life will happen.

I find myself falling quickly and I think he is smitten. Yeah, I do I kind of like the guy - I do. From what I know of him, he's everything I'd want in a husband, lover, friend, brother or father. I think he thinks I'm pretty special too. Does it mean he will leave his wife and life behind? I don't really think so and I'm okay with that. I've had opportunities to be with married men in the past and I've never done that before - it's not something that I'd want, but with him - I'm just going to let life happen.
Lisa, the more I read in this thread the more I hope this somehow works out for both of you. You both are obviously warm, caring people.

Quote Originally Posted by ReineD View Post
I don't know if you're big on studies, but the little research there has been so far (below is a sampling if you're interested), report there are many more accepting wives than CDers who happen to be in non-understanding relationships believe.
Reine, this is probably off-topic but thank you so much for pointing these out. I had no idea -- just judging from the posts here, I've have thought that tolerant / accepting wives / GF's / SO's were in the minority. Or maybe that's because we tend to focus on those of us with troubled relationships.