Hi Wednesday,
I feel exactly the same as you. Its not the just the clothes anymore, they are the tool to let my feminine side free. In the past couple of months I have gone out multiple times to the grocery store, the mall etc. I love the feeling of freedom it gives me. In my constant search of what defines me the closest I can find is bi-gender, having both male and female components and switching back and forth depending on how I feel. So i guess am somewhere along the spectrum too.
Wishing you the best drop e a line sometime I would like to explore this further.
Lisa