When the subject comes up my wife asks the same question and has the same fear. "Do you want to be a woman?" I have always said 'No.", but it does worry her even after all this time since I first told her about it in 1968, three years before we married. The fact that you can both shop for girl things is pretty amazing. We never got there. We are still pretty much DADT. So take it easy with her, she's a real catch.