Transition changed a lot in regards to the relationship I have with me wife. It took all intimacy out of the equation, she lost her husband. a lot of time she is okay with who I am today, a sometimes not so much. It was stressful for her on many levels as I jumped from one step in transition to the next and the whole time her hoping it would be as far as I would go - but I just kept going. Its been a heartbreaking journey for her.