Can't answer for "most". I am a CDer who is fully out in the real world here in Australia and have many friends. I don't live in fear of assault or murder.
Does that mean.....In AU, can CD's do their business with disguise?! Can they teach people, do a business in game company branch, develop programs with girls clothes?
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.