Quote Originally Posted by Khora View Post
I'm bi because I've had physical encounters with men. I only desire this as a female and never think about it while in guy mode. I don't have any interest in an emotional relationship with a man, only a woman.
Khora, that's one of my points. Our definitions differ. If it's just sex because being dressed and wanting to be taken as a woman is arousing to you, is this truly being bisexual or is it fetish?

I take it that an inherent sexual orientation (the partner that someone is ultimately attracted to and can form relationships with) fundamentally manifests itself when someone is in his or her most natural state, which is naked. Are you attracted to men in your default male mode? You say no and further, you are not capable of having emotional relationships with men.

If you need to have the appearance of being a woman in order to experience a sexual attraction to men, then I'm suggesting that the source of your attraction or arousal is in the fact that you are dressed. You get off on the idea of being a woman (or more precisely, a sexually desirable woman … not just the average plain Jane) more than on the person who is in bed with you … and what better way is there to emphasize the fantasy by providing yourself with the ultimate prop, which is a male, most of whom do desire women? I suppose you could test this theory by dressing without having anyone in the room with you. If you are in the mood and still aroused, then it's an indication that the true attraction is not a male that you have a crush on, but the fact that your mirror reflects a sexually attractive woman.