Quote Originally Posted by AussieJess View Post
while my wife and myself work out together how to deal with my self and our situation.

XOXO - Jess
That's the most important ... it sounds like the two of you are starting off well, just keep the lines of communication open. The best relationships, in my opinion, are those where partners trust each other so much that they are not afraid of telling the other when they are not happy about something. They trust that their partners will be able to put aside their own point of view, and try to listen.

... and this is very hard to accomplish, even in my own relationship.