My liberal wife thinks all TVs are gay

[Pat]

If we just stuck to "male-attracted" (androphile) or "female-attracted" (gynophile), then the terms wouldn't change since they ONLY describe who we are attracted to without describing us in any way.

It's way messier than that, though. There are males that are attracted to males presenting female (CDs) but not to males presenting male. And CD's who are attracted to other CDs but not males presenting male. No words cover that. No words cover males who are attracted to FtM transsexuals. There IS "pansexual" if you're attracted to pretty much anyone in any presentation. But for the others there are either no words or we deny or discount those attractions. I have no answers to this, by the way, just the observation.