Why do people instantly think...

[DeeDeeB]

What I want to know is since I'm fond of women (been married to one for 30 years), am I a lesbian? And is she? I know several couples who wonder the same thing so any help here would be appreciated.

And who are these "normal" people being spoken of? Are they the homophobes and/or transphobes? Are they "normal"? Certainly not in the world I live in.

Dee :fairy1:

[flatlander_48]

What I want to know is since I'm fond of women (been married to one for 30 years), am I a lesbian? And is she? I know several couples who wonder the same thing so any help here would be appreciated.

And if you did know the answer to that, what would it change? Would you quit dressing? Would you transition?

Personally, I think the answer would be nothing. Nothing would change. Further, it makes about as much sense as a dog chasing his tail.

DeeAnn