I am with Lorileah and the other ladies who posted, you have to be careful to use your gender identity as an excuse when in male mode.
We are representatives of the whole community and you possible could send the wrong message to other who never could understand.
I suppose it wasn't too bad since you were pretty sure of your surroundings.
Next time bring a house dress, lingerie, wig and makeup with you...if you can.
I have a grab-n-go bag all packed at all times, just in case.