There is a still a failure to answer. I was never a man. You are a man(assuming you are not ts)..or perhaps you are a transgendered man...

You were correctly gendered , i was not.
it is not just a ritual, its nature...

you choose to step out of societies "rules" for men... i am not a man
I accept your self identification as a cd male or a tg male or GQ or bi gendered male or whatever you choose...

You just can't seem to accept mine as a woman..how does this enrich me?
ending up in the same umbrella as its called is mostly out of my control..but its still not right.