when I dress with and go out with my wife (not often) but she has little objection as long as I am not over the top , I can control myself sexually and just be me.
But just the other morning after a night dressed with her and she left for work (I work from home) I was feeling I still wanted to be dressed that morning (not to her knowledge, she would not be happy if I did it at home WITHOUT her knowledge...no problem if she knew) but anyway so I dressed and thought I may go down the road to post a letter (drive there) so jumped in the car all dressed up ,got there and just the knowledge of doing it in secret made things excited and right there and then (across road from postbox) in the car even with restrictive garments keeping things snug & shrunk.....I was overcome and couldn't contain the internal excitement and well you guessed the rest...needless to say the letter didn't get posted and back home it was...
in answer mostly I can control myself but it still stimulates me.....