None of us are free until we all are free..
this could be said of every person on planet earth...its a noble sentiment...however it is NOT descriptive of how things really work..its not even a little bit close...perhaps its the way things should work..imagine all the people....
in any case, you said what you said...you didnt answer the question..
you clearly think she "got something" ...what did she get?? what exactly should she give back? who exactly is she ignoring?? should she go to a meeting?? give a speech?? I go to some meetings btw...i give speeches...i have laid my heart and soul on the line for dozens of large groups...we go out every moment of every day and lay it on the line..
is living an authentic life in front of everybody around her enough for you??
What you clearly do not understand or appreciate is what a person does when they transition. i can deal with that...you are going to have to deal with it too..
