Quote Originally Posted by char GG View Post
This is just my :2c:

...........................The wives of SO's that are contemplating more than just women's clothes (pierced ears, permanent hair removal, hormones, etc) are less than thrilled. .................................................. ......................CDing in itself is harmless. It's when there is sneaking, lying, hiding things, etc. behaviors that really turn the wives off to the whole thing. There is no typical couple as there is no typical CDer. Everyone's situation is different. ..............................
I had asked her a couple of times if she would have a problem if I got my ears pierced; which she would reply, go ahead, but I didn't feel like she was really okay with it. It took my wife many years to get to the point where she asked me if I would like to get my ears pierced for my birthday. I was always honest with her, I didn't hid anything from her. We have been together for a long time and our kids have grown up and moved out. I know that early on, she was always worried about what others would think of her, the stigma of being married to a crossdresser; which is what my youngest daughter used to tell her. For a long time, my other daughters thought that she was trying to break us up.