in this case I would never subscribe to "It is easier to ask forgiveness over permission." If you get caught you have violated a trust. Trust is hard to rebuild. Being honest is easier and better, even if you get shot down. Worst case she will think you odd...not untrustworthy
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“Love isn't a state of perfect caring. It is an active noun like struggle. To love someone is to strive to accept that person exactly the way he or she is, right here and now.” - Fred Rogers,
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