In your first post you write "No one knows I dress, and I don’t want to come out or raise suspicions. What do you suggest I do?" Now, you post "They somewhat see me as a joker, so I kinda have the feeling I can get away with it"
I'm left wondering why you asked in the first place if you had already made your decision.
As for the outfit, you've seen the show and you can buy a DVD if you need more ideas on the outfit. "Penny" has worn hundreds of different outfits over the course of the show. Most of her outfits and looks will be very difficult for a natural male to pull off because there's lots of skin showing and showing as well as cleavage.
