Congratulations to all. Following this discussion has been one of the most enjoyable threads I've ever read. Many, many good points and most well thought and presented. Clearly a difficult topic to achieve consensus yet the differences allows a growth of understanding. I wish our culture could be this open and thoughtful on so many issues. I like to believe that with all of the sordid history of male female relationships we are coming closer to achieving the best balance we can. There will be work to do for a few more generations, at least, but the goal of equality seems to be well rooted now. Whatever your passion, pursue it, and don't let others hold you back. Find another way around hurdles if you must.

The point I wish to contribute is we need to stop pitting one group against another to gain constituencies. Black vs white. Male vs female. Age. Nationality. Theology, and host of social issues. I hope the future allows more acceptance for differentiation, whatever the category, so we can focus on moving the bar up for everyone.