The question was if we'd experienced being treated as second class citizens. The answer was yes. Now it's clear that you're just going to try to keep coming up with more things to complain about. I can do that too.
If you can relate that well how is it to be a second class citizen, then why don't you agree that sexism damages women more? Frankly, I can't understand that. Sure what you described is bad, and its true aswell that kids are not treated like persons. But the experience should help you see that as woman, it would have been more accute because of the social expectations that limit females very much.

I do not have any grudge against you or anything, don't misunderstand me, no need to private message, and prefer to post here where anybody can enter and discuss.

Lets stop with the history lessons. It has nothing to do with today.
Yes it does, it has everything to do with today. Its good to check history to see how things worked out to arrive to the present point. Its good to remember how bad some people had it in the past, they fought, and now they have it a little better because of the effort.

Let's stick to the current state of affairs where we actually live, huh? Women have it harder in some ways, easier in others
Sure lets stick to it. Women have it harder most of the time, and I'm certainly interested to know what you understand as easier for women.

A few examples of the present situation, just ten of them:

Women are...

1 - Less respected and taken less seriously
2 - Paid less
3 - Expected to be always pretty and beautiful, and they are treated more for their looks than for anything else.
4 - Thought of as weak individuals who always are in need of help (in need of a man?)
5 - Sexually harassed more often, much more often
6 - More likely to be assaulted, robbed and of course raped
7 - Expected to stay at home much more than males when they have kids
8 - Expected to be submissive, although atleast this is changing
9 - More likely to suffer from domestic violence (Not that males don't suffer from this too, but women do on a bigger scale)
10 - Acussed of bitches when they have a very active sexual life (while men can be all the bitches they want and its all good)

This is just a list of ten, theres a lot more.

Yes there is sexism, and for women it is worse and more varied than it is for men. There is sexism against men too, and a few points are pretty bad aswell, but its just not as huge, the list is lesser.

Not noticable to who? Maybe you. But then again, when you already have your decision made, you're only going to see what you expect to see, and disregard the rest.
As I just argumented, female power over male, where they have an advantage, a clear one, its a situation that is not very common. Thats why its not very noticeable in every day life to see that a female wins over a male something just because of gender. They are more likely to get the custody of kids, thats a good example.

But this is one situation against one hundred others that males get over females just because of gender.

Remember though, its patriarchy that wants it this way because it thinks of women as the ones who are expected to take care of children. It depends on how you see it, but to me, its still machism.

Im not going to disregard anything by the way. To me, theres injustice both ways, only that women really do have it worse because as I said, the list is bigger.

And well, concerning the rest of your post, I am going to make my response pretty short. All the reasons you listed about crossdressing are still explained by machism and machism alone.

I don't need to study any more sociology to see that ending machism, opens so many opportunities for the TG community.