Sara,
It's a point I'm going to bring up with her at our next session !
The counsellor is part of Relate set up by the government, her basic aim will be to get me into a happy mental state to improve my relationship with my wife . In doing so she may go along with my thoughts and actions not questioning if they are right or wrong. It was the first session to get an idea of what the problem is so she may formulate how to handle the next one .