I literally just read an article by a transsexual woman who stated how she had never known or heard of a transgendered person who didn't want to transition, her article explained how at first she was like "well you can't be trans if you don't want to transition" until her understanding that not everyone can be painted with the same brush. Her two suggested definitions were; dysphorics and non dysphorics which I think seems like a nice little way to tidy up that mess.
As often as we lament the use of labelling I think when you know what label you are it's easier to move on, but at least I think with those ones we are all transgender but obviously distinct sub groups.
