I think one should pick whatever label one prefers, with the proviso that you may need to define what you mean by it because not everybody understands it the same way. When talking about human gender (or sexuality), the labels we have are only approximations for a vague and variable reality in any case.
A trans acquaintance of mine told me once that if you didn't want gender confirmation surgery (health or financial limitations aside) then you weren't 'really' trans, a point of view that has been opprobriously labeled 'truscum' or 'transmedicalist'.
Do you have a link for that article, by chance?
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