Hell-o Slamddoger,
I've recently been told by 2 GG's, one a therapists wife, and the other a hairdresser, that I pass.
And then I said "thank you"! (The smoke faded, and the mirrors stopped reflecting)
It really doesn't matter, if your comfortable enough to be out, and someone sees you as a "dude in a dress". So what!
As long as your going about your business, being polite, and acting respectful, anyone that has issues with you just being you, has there own problems to deal with.
And really... Don't you just "put up" with people all the time?
Much Love,
Kristyn