Deebra, you cannot generalize. I don't think there is such a thing as "what most women think" because our population is so very diverse and also what women think is influenced by how well they know the CDer or how much impact the CDer has on the woman's life, and also the degree of your CDing.

  • The women you do not know and run into while out dressed: some women will approve to varying degrees, some won't to varying degrees, and some just won't care, they'll have a "whatever" attitude to seeing men whom they do not know dress like a woman. Will these women want to get to know you better? That depends on their age, background, open-mindedness, and many other factors.

  • The women you do know: again, it depends on whether they are open-minded or not. It depends on how much they like you. People who like you a lot might be more open-minded than people who don't, again depending on how liberal or conservative are their views of gender and sexual variance and also the type of relationship have with you, and the degree of your CDing.

  • Women on dating sites: if you dress as a woman in your profile, some women will pass by and not want to contact you, some women will see something else in your profile they might think is worth getting to know, and some women will be intrigued just because you're a CDer.



Also, all of the above is influenced by what you mean, exactly, by "wearing female clothing or wanting to". Are you just talking about a pair or panties under male clothes and/or a pair of women's jeans and Tshirt but are presenting as a male, or are you thinking feminine outfit with breast forms, shoes, wig, makeup, etc. If a woman has more negative views than positive ones about CDers, she will likely be more OK with you presenting as a male and wearing panties or a pair of women's jeans than dressing in the full regalia. And in the "wanting to" part of your statement, the disapproving women are more OK with you "wanting to" (and dressing when they are not around), than actually wearing the clothes around them. But, if a woman does approve, then often it's a question of how much and how often. More women will be OK with occasional dressing than full time.

Or, if you're thinking more along the lines of dressing in the bedroom as a kink while appearing as a male outside the bedroom, I think that a lot of women are open to that but again, this depends on many factors including how much they like you, their background, their libido and whether or not they see the CDing as just a harmless bedroom kink vs. something deeper.


To every one, re women wearing men's clothes:
Please stop imagining, in your mind's eye, the stereotypical butch lesbian who might in fact wear men's clothes purchased in men's stores. She does not represent the vast majority of women. Instead, look around at what the women you see every day are wearing. Look at your neighbor. Look at women at the mall and the grocery stores. Look at the women you work with at your company's summer picnic. Examine their clothes and tell me if you think they bought them in men's stores. Next, tell me how you know that their clothes were not bought in men's stores. This is how you will learn that there is a difference between women's casual clothes and men's clothes. :p