Veronica, I do so relate. I grew up in the 50's and early 60's. Our personal outlook and life's expectations were formed from the role models of our relatives. Fathers,uncles, and actors were our primary role models. There was no room for any other views. Gender expression was set in stone and woe be the one that trespassed the norms. I sometime envy the younger generations for having more freedom. That is not to say that there is a smooth ride all the time. There will always be idiots wishing to impose their narrow views on others. As I get older, going out fully dressed holds little appeal to me. I suppose that is one reason I don't come here that often. Everyone will find their on self-satisfaction in how they express themselves. Whew, I have never been this long winded. Thanks for letting a very mature lady vent. L
