Hi MikeyP like all the other girls have said tell any future girlfriends upfront before things get serious. I really wish I came out to my wife even though I wasn't dressing much when we met, now I feel like I'm in too deep but I'm trying to gear up the courage to tell her like many dressers here have done, but on the flip side I'm prepared to make the sacrifice of not being able to dress or shave as much as I'd like to as I don't want to potentially lose my family. xxx