Quote Originally Posted by ReineD View Post
Right! Nothing against you and speaking from my heart, I would not want to be a 7 to my SO. I want to be THE 10, because my SO is THE 10 to me. It's all tied into the feelings of love I have for my SO! I don't know how old you are, but my guess is that most younger GGs would want to be your 10. If you are middle aged and are looking at GGs who are into their second or third relationship, you might find one for whom being your 10 is not important, or you might find someone who doesn't prioritize sex after the first few years and for whom it won't matter where else you receive sexual gratification. But in any case, you should absolutely be honest with your SO before commitment, to give her an chance to decide whether or not this arrangement would suit her.



Have you thought about joining a site like FetLife? I think there are some GGs who look for kink CDers there. In the vanilla world? Not so much.
I guess I should clarify. In my private times, I don't really feel the romantic vibe between me and those girls on the screen. Nothing compares to real sexual intercourse to me. It's just that the real thing is much harder to come by so I take the easy way out and retreat into my little fantasy world.

A partner who expressed interest in me as a man, and who made me feel like an attractive person during intercourse would be a 10 to me. Nothing compares to real live sex with a woman for me. It's just much harder to come by. Also, yeah, fetlife is an interesting site, but the problem is, you don't really get to date the "dominatrixes" on there. 99% of the guys I talk to in that community are single. It's pretty sad. Having to pay someone to live out my fantasies are also a HUGE turn off for me, heh. I guess I could maybe at best find a girl who is into bdsm, that's common enough I think, and it's a pretty good middle ground for me.

So I'm pretty much to the point where I want to develop a real relationship with a woman in the real world that's okay with me having a "sissy boy" kink. It just feels so hopeless at my age.