Wow, more great advice from more wonderful people. I appreciate everybody here.
The last few posts from people have taken a different turn and are forcing me to think more deeply into this.
Rhonda, I've been avoiding these thoughts for a while. I'm going to be completely honest here, and I'm going to say ahead of time that I don't want to offend anybody, & that I fully support all of you and who you all truly are as people.
But the truth is that although the dressing does not bother me, I honestly don't think I could be with somebody who truly wants to be a woman 100%. I'm not familiar with all of the terms, but I'd be okay if he wanted to be a part time woman I guess if that's the right way to put it. But if this were to consume our relationship, and if I felt more like I'm with a complete woman rather than at least a part man, I don't think It would work.
Everything Rhonda said is scary to think about. I don't think I could handle it if it got that far. Does it get that far for most CDs? I'd really like to hear what the extent of the crossdressing is for all of you.
I actually was planning the ultimatum for this past Wednesday but I found this website the night before and I decided to wait.
I need answers. I need the truth. I don't know what this means for him and I'm sure he doesn't either but I want him to bring me along for the journey for self discovery. Even if we ever did split, I would be more than happy to be his friend.
