I always find it interesting (and irritating) when a dressing-for-sexual-excitement thread prompts those whose dressing is non-sexual to drive the point home. Is this really necessary.
The positive reaction to initially strong sexual gratification does rewire the brain and eventually it does change a person's personality, even after libido has decreased. Maybe the people for whom it is no longer or rarely sexual have selective memory?
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.