Yes,Lisa,,to switch back and forth and be accepted is a great place to be ,,,,as its me,,,but still,,,the husband,father,protector,fixer upper and all casts an unaccepting dilemma when our othersides `protrude`?,,,,,anyways ,zyz,I hate it,,,oh well,,,such as is,,,i still love being Suzy till the day I die.