Looking at what Nicole said it came to mine that most cders have been in her spot. I have been caught and made fun of too, like many of you. Consider this....we, for the most part do not feel shame when we dress, however, the people who catch us dressed are ashamed of us, for dressing. Help me here folks.....not sure where my train of thought is taking me. People outside of the TG world are ashamed of us, because we do not live up to their expectations of how a person should dress, being born a G.M. No disrespect to anyone, but it could be said their brain is not large enough to include cders. THEY, not us, have placed all people inside the male or female box. They can't wrap their heads around anything outside either of the two boxes.
They keep screaming you are either a gg or gm and we scream we are just humans, who have appeared in this world as a gm, who likes to wear gg clothing. They have no desire to understand why we do it, they just want us to feel shame because we don't fit into either box, carried in their mind.
I don't think it is the cloths that produces that type thinking, that we wear. Why ? Well, if you go to Wal mart you see people in pajama bottoms and any other clothing you can name. Does a Dad humiliate them like the Father of Nicole did ? No, because he does not have a male or female box to shove them in. It is just tacky in their minds.
My point is...we are outside the box and they want us in one or the other to make them happy. We already are. Sorry, this was getting long
