I hope you won't mind if I'm candid. I've read a few of your older threads and you've written about this consistently through the years. The CDing is sexual for you, but you also want to be in a sexual relationship with a woman (most of whom aren't into it sexually like you are). In other words, being dressed offers you a more satisfactory sexual experience and this can be counterproductive when seeking female partners.
There are three solutions that come to mind:
1. Start dating women, and when feelings develop between you, tell them about the CDing and ask if they might be comfortable with it in bed. This might be a time consuming effort if the first few women don't pan out. And there is always the possibility that a new love would be into it in the beginning, but would cool after a while when she realized that you need to be dressed in the bedroom for your experience to be rewarding.
2. Specifically seek women who are into CDing partners as a kink. There are special websites for this, one of them is fetlife.
3. If your sexuality is having an negative impact on your life (if it is preventing you from being in a mutually satisfying sexual and emotional relationship with a woman), then you might seek help with experts who know how to deal with sexual fetish. It doesn't necessarily mean you'd need to stop the CDing, you'd just need to refocus your sexual energy.
You mean pansexual (I had a discussion about this with a bi female friend and she enlightened me). Bi women are not automatically into men who feminize themselves. A cis-bi-woman is into cis-men and cis-women. There's a difference. Some bi-women can be into non-cis men and women, but not all. I urge everyone to read the linked article, you might save yourselves from offending any bi women you meet by making assumptions that are not true about them. It's always best to ask what a person feels comfortable with in bed, and not assume.Originally Posted by Robin414
