I am late to the party, so sorry for the drop in. One comment I want to make is that I see a lot of comments from people trying to define "a CD does this" and "a TS does that". A crossdresser or a transexual does exactly what they want to and it doesn't have to fit a mold or follow a rule/perception. Some of you missed how I figured myself out completely by trying to standardize our paths. Allow everyone to progress their own way and accept them. It really works!