Sherry,
Yes you're right I do scratch my head with Sherry but as you say that's another story !
You do make a good point about body shape, I'm one that chooses to go as natural as possible, only enough in the bra to balance my shape, I'm really happy with that, being a UK size 12 gives me a real buzz when you see many women struggling to get into clothes twice that size.
Don't forget women come in all shapes and sizes there are some very boyish figured women about as well proportioned ones.
If you saw the photo of me in the pic section at my first social outing I was wearing a dress sent to me by my counsellor which fitted perfectly as do most of the other clothes she sent. Why shouldn't I be happy with that, there's no padding to spoil the feel of wearing those clothes .
No offense taken and please don't be offended if I tell you to keep your padding and latex I'm one happy bunny as I am !